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From the Ted Talk by Crystal Rasmussen: A queer journey from shame to self-love
Unscramble the Blue Letters
These days, I find it easy to look in the mirror. This used to be the case, too, because I learned to be a drag queen alone, Back then, in the early noughties, there was no ctruaull mirror for someone like me. There was no chance of switching on Netflix and finding someone who looks like you, and Lily Savage never quite made it to the Woolworths bagrain bin if she ever made it to the dizzying heights of VHS at all. So there was me and a moirrr, and that's the only place I saw myself for a long time.
It will be over a decade until this part of me became more than a mere reflection. And in that time, what happened would change my relationship with that mirror. In that decade, I came out as gay at a Catholic state comp in the wkrnoig class notrh West, and I survived. But as with anything that uomoshtns the edges of normal society, that coming out brought with it a daily dose of judgment and therein shame from almost everyone around me, shame that was hared and felt and internalized and often replicated by me.
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These days, I find it easy to look in the mirror. This used to be the case, too, because I learned to be a drag queen alone, Back then, in the early noughties, there was no ________ mirror for someone like me. There was no chance of switching on Netflix and finding someone who looks like you, and Lily Savage never quite made it to the Woolworths _______ bin if she ever made it to the dizzying heights of VHS at all. So there was me and a ______, and that's the only place I saw myself for a long time.
It will be over a decade until this part of me became more than a mere reflection. And in that time, what happened would change my relationship with that mirror. In that decade, I came out as gay at a Catholic state comp in the _______ class _____ West, and I survived. But as with anything that _________ the edges of normal society, that coming out brought with it a daily dose of judgment and therein shame from almost everyone around me, shame that was _____ and felt and internalized and often replicated by me.
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Original Text
These days, I find it easy to look in the mirror. This used to be the case, too, because I learned to be a drag queen alone, Back then, in the early noughties, there was no cultural mirror for someone like me. There was no chance of switching on Netflix and finding someone who looks like you, and Lily Savage never quite made it to the Woolworths bargain bin if she ever made it to the dizzying heights of VHS at all. So there was me and a mirror, and that's the only place I saw myself for a long time.
It will be over a decade until this part of me became more than a mere reflection. And in that time, what happened would change my relationship with that mirror. In that decade, I came out as gay at a Catholic state comp in the working class North West, and I survived. But as with anything that unsmooths the edges of normal society, that coming out brought with it a daily dose of judgment and therein shame from almost everyone around me, shame that was heard and felt and internalized and often replicated by me.
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