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From the Ted Talk by Morgana Bailey: The danger of hiding who you are
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When I was young, I priedd myself as a nonconformist in the caversvntoie U.S. state I live in, Kansas. I didn't follow along with the crowd. I wasn't afraid to try wired conlhitg trends or hairstyles. I was outspoken and extremely social. Even these pitucres and postcards of my London semester abroad 16 years ago show that I obviously didn't care if I was perceived as weird or different. (Laughter)
But that same year I was in London, 16 years ago, I realized something about myself that actually was somewhat unique, and that ceghnad everything. I became the opposite of who I thought I once was. I sayetd in my room instead of socializing. I stopped engaging in clubs and leadership activities. I didn't want to stand out in the crowd anymore. I told myself it was because I was growing up and maturing, not that I was suddenly looking for acceptance. I had always assumed I was immune to needing acceptance. After all, I was a bit utonnaenicvnol. But I realize now that the moment I realized something was different about me was the exact same moment that I began coinnfmorg and hdinig.
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When I was young, I ______ myself as a nonconformist in the ____________ U.S. state I live in, Kansas. I didn't follow along with the crowd. I wasn't afraid to try _____ ________ trends or hairstyles. I was outspoken and extremely social. Even these ________ and postcards of my London semester abroad 16 years ago show that I obviously didn't care if I was perceived as weird or different. (Laughter)
But that same year I was in London, 16 years ago, I realized something about myself that actually was somewhat unique, and that _______ everything. I became the opposite of who I thought I once was. I ______ in my room instead of socializing. I stopped engaging in clubs and leadership activities. I didn't want to stand out in the crowd anymore. I told myself it was because I was growing up and maturing, not that I was suddenly looking for acceptance. I had always assumed I was immune to needing acceptance. After all, I was a bit ______________. But I realize now that the moment I realized something was different about me was the exact same moment that I began __________ and ______.
Solution
- hiding
- changed
- unconventional
- prided
- weird
- conservative
- conforming
- pictures
- clothing
- stayed
Original Text
When I was young, I prided myself as a nonconformist in the conservative U.S. state I live in, Kansas. I didn't follow along with the crowd. I wasn't afraid to try weird clothing trends or hairstyles. I was outspoken and extremely social. Even these pictures and postcards of my London semester abroad 16 years ago show that I obviously didn't care if I was perceived as weird or different. (Laughter)
But that same year I was in London, 16 years ago, I realized something about myself that actually was somewhat unique, and that changed everything. I became the opposite of who I thought I once was. I stayed in my room instead of socializing. I stopped engaging in clubs and leadership activities. I didn't want to stand out in the crowd anymore. I told myself it was because I was growing up and maturing, not that I was suddenly looking for acceptance. I had always assumed I was immune to needing acceptance. After all, I was a bit unconventional. But I realize now that the moment I realized something was different about me was the exact same moment that I began conforming and hiding.
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